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Status of Women in
Islam
When studying the fundamental
rights and obligations of women in Islam it must be pointed
out at the very outset that, despite the capacity of Muslim
law to adapt itself and to develop according to circumstances,
there will be no question of recognizing the extreme liberty,
which a woman enjoys today in fact and in practice, in certain
sections of the social life, both in the capitalist and the
communist West. Islam demands that a woman should remain a
responsible and reasonable being. It does not expect her to
become either an angel or a demon.
If one wants to compare and
contrast a woman's position according to Islam with that according
to other religions and civilizations or legal systems, one
should take into consideration all the facts and not merely
isolated practices. The aim of this essay is to answer the
questions such as the status of a woman in society and Islam's
position regarding it and that how Islam has contributed towards
the restoration of a woman's dignity, honor and rights.
Women before Islam:
The plight and condition of
women before the emergence of Islam was very miserable. In
Roman, Indian and other civilizations of the world women were
always subjugated to all kinds of humiliations and hardships.
They were buried alive and were looked upon as a bad omen.
They were considered profitable goods just like any cattle
or horse. This condition of women prevailed even in the pre-Islamic
Arab.
Women in Roman Society:
A Roman wife was described
by a historian as a person incapable of doing or acting anything
according to her own individual taste, a person continually
under the tutelage and guardianship of her husband.
In the Encyclopedia Britannica,
we find that the legal status of women in the Roman society
was pitiable.
In Roman law, a woman was
ever completely dependent upon men. If married she and her
property passed into her husband's hands. The wife was the
purchased property of her husband and like a slave acquired
only for his benefit. A woman could not hold any civil or
public office, could not be a witness, surety, tutor, or curator;
she could not adopt or be adopted or make will or contract.
Women in Persian Society:
There was no moral value and
respect of a woman. There was no concept of mother, daughter,
sister and wife. Women were simply treated as objects for
pleasure.
Women in Christianity:
In ancient Christian society
and even today woman is called devil's gateway, as she was
the one, who under the influence of Shaytaan or devil forced
Adam to eat the forbidden fruit and thus destroyed the God's
image i.e. man.
According to Encyclopedia
Biblica (1902 - Vol 3):
"To betroth a wife to
oneself meant simply to acquire possession of her by payment
of the purchase money, the betrothed is a girl for whom the
purchase money has been paid."
Women's consent regarding
marriage was unnecessary and as to the right of divorce Encyclopedia
Biblica states, "The woman being man's property, his
right to divorce her follows as a matter of course."
Women in Hinduism:
It is stated in "Muno
Samarti" that telling lies is a personal quality of a
woman.
At another place it is written:
"It is important for a woman to be in the possession
of her father in her childhood, to be possessed by her husband
in her youth and after the death of husband and to be possessed
by her sons."
Women were not allowed to
remarry. Sati or the burning of the widowed woman with her
dead husband was a common practice and it is still observed
in certain parts of India. Similarly female children were
burned alive. In Encyclopedia Britannica it is stated:
"In India, subjection
was a cardinal principle. Day and night women must be held
by their protectors in a state of dependence, says Manu. The
rule of inheritance was such that descent was traced through
males to the exclusion of females."
Women in Islam:
With the emergence of Islam
in Arab, the women occupied a new status, a status of dignity,
honor and respect for them.
Special status was given to
women as mothers.
Abu Hurairah narrated that
a man asked Holy Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam): “Who
is most worthy of my good treatment? He answered: Your Mother.
The man asked: Who comes next? And he answered: Your mother.
The man then asked again: Who comes next? And he answered:
Your mother. The man then inquired a fourth time, and he answered:
Your father. (Bukhaari and Muslim)
Islam also admonished the
practice of female infanticide and restored the respect and
dignity of female children.
The Holy Qur'aan: "When
the news is brought to them of the birth of a female (child),
his face darkens and he is filled with inward grief. With
shame does he hide himself from his people, because of the
bad news he has heard, shall he retain it on (sufferance and)
contempt, or bury it in sand? Allah! What an evil choice they
decide on." (16:58-59)
The Holy Prophet (sallallahu
alaihi wa-sallam): "Any one, who has daughters and is
kind to them, will find that on the Day of Judgment, they
will serve as a shield for him against Hell.” (Bukhaari
and Muslim)
Islam encourages each individual
to marry and establish a home. Polygamy is allowed but only
under certain conditions.
The Holy Qur'aan: "Marry
women of your choice, two or three or four but if you fear
that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then
only one or (a captive) that your right hand possesses: thus
it is more likely that you shall not do injustice to them.”
(4:3)
Islam also enjoins that a
wife and husband should have the most intimate and loving
relationship.
"They are your garment
and you are their garment. (Qur'aan, 2:187)
The Holy Prophet (sallallahu
alaihi wa-sallam): "A previously married woman shall
not be married till she gives her consent, nor a virgin be
married till her consent is sought. If she remains silent
then this is her consent, if she declines, there shall be
no compulsion on her to marry.” (Bukhaari and Muslim)
Divorce is a disliked act
in Islam. It is allowed only if it is impossible to live together.
"A divorce is only permissible
twice. After that the parties should either hold together
on equitable terms or separate with kindness. (Qur'aan, 2:229)
Islam gives women every opportunity
to have rights over men as men have rights over them. As Allah
told us in Qur'aan that women have rights similar to those
of men over them and men are a degree above them.
Islam also decreed a right
of which woman was deprived both before Islam and after it,
the right of independent ownership. According to Islamic Law,
woman's right to her money, real estate, or other properties
is fully acknowledged. This right undergoes no change whether
she is single or married. She retains her full rights to buy,
sell, mortgage or lease any or all her properties. It is nowhere
suggested in the law that a woman is a minor simply because
she is a female.
To put a long story short,
Islam has given women a new status, a status of dignity, honor
and respect. Islam believes in developing spiritual as well
as physical and wordily aspects of one's personality. This
is the basic reason, why Muslim women are more peaceful and
contended as compared to Non-Muslim women. They are capable
of fulfilling their duties for whatever the role assigned
to them. They are capable of both taking care of their homes
and doing their jobs without neglecting the other one. They
always take the medium path. Islam which is not just a religion
but a complete way of life, provides complete guidance to
women in personal as well as social life. It provides them
with human dignity, equality and justice and makes them responsible
and reasonable human beings.
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